Only
give out identifying information when you trust the
site and know that it is secure (look for the lock in
the lower right corner). This is stuff like your name,
address, & phone number.
Try not to panic if you see an inappropriate website.
Simply exit the window (click X in the top corner),
or turn off the computer.
Do not agree to meet someone who you have met
online but you don't know in real life.
Only open emails from people you do know and not when
they contain weird attachments. Only use credit cards
online with your parents permission.
Have fun! The Internet is a great tool that is used
for many wonderful things. Just like any community,
there are areas on the Internet where you can find yourself
in compromising situations. A little bit of street smarts
on the Information highway will help make your Internet
experience fun, rewarding, and safe!
1. I will
not give out personal information such as my address,
telephone number, parents’ work address/telephone
number, or the name and location of my school without
my parents’ permission.
2. I will tell my parents right away if I come across
any information that makes me feel uncomfortable.
3. I will never agree to get together with someone I
"meet" online without first checking with
my parents. If my parents agree to the meeting, I will
be sure that it is in a public place and bring my mother
or father along.
4. I will never send a person my picture or anything
else without first checking with my parents.
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5. I will not respond to
any messages that are mean or in any way make me feel
uncomfortable. It is not my fault if I get a message like
that. If I do I will tell my parents right away so that
they can contact the service provider.
6. I will talk with my parents so that we can set up
rules for going online. We will decide upon the time
of day that I can be online, the length of time I can
be online, and appropriate areas for me to visit. I
will not access other areas or break these rules without
their permission.
7. I will not give out my Internet password to anyone
(even my best friends) other than my parents.
8. I will be a good online citizen and not do anything
that hurts other people or is against the law.
Never give out identifying
information-- home address, school name, or telephone
number-- in a public message such as chat or bulletin
boards, and be sure you're dealing with someone that
both you and your child know and trust before giving
it out via E-mail. Think carefully before revealing
any personal information such as age, marital status,
or financial information. Consider using a pseudonym
or unlisting your child's name if your service allows
it.
Get to know the services your child uses. If you don't
know how to log on, get your child to show you. Find
out what types of information it offers and whether
there are ways for parents to block out objectionable
material.
Never allow a child to arrange a face-to-face
meeting with another computer user without parental
permission. If a meeting is arranged, make the first
one in a public spot, and be sure to accompany your
child.
Never respond to messages or bulletin board items that
are suggestive, obscene, belligerent, threatening, or
make you feel uncomfortable. Encourage your children
to tell you if they encounters such messages. If you
or your child receives a message that is harassing,
of a sexual nature, or threatening, forward a copy of
the message to your service provider and ask for their
assistance.
If a meeting is arranged, make the first one in a public
spot.
Should you become aware of the transmission, use, or
viewing of child pornography while online, immediately
report this to the National Center for Missing and Exploited
Children by calling 1-800-843-5678 or visiting the CyberTipLine
online. You should also notify your online service.
Remember that people online may not be who they seem.
Because you can't see or even hear the person it would
be easy for someone to misrepresent him- or herself.
Thus, someone indicating that "she" is a "12-year-old
girl" could in reality be a 40-year-old man. Remember
that everything you read online may not be true. Any
offer that's "too good to be true" probably
is. Be very careful about any offers that involve your
coming to a meeting or having someone visit your house.
Set reasonable rules and guidelines for computer use
by your children (see "Kids Rules for Online Safety").
Discuss these rules and post them near the computer
as a reminder. Remember to monitor their compliance
with these rules, especially when it comes to the amount
of time your children spend on the computer. A child
or teenager's excessive use of online services or bulletin
boards, especially late at night, may be a clue that
there is a potential problem. Remember that personal
computers and online services should not be used as
electronic babysitters.
Be sure to make this a family activity. Consider keeping
the computer in a family room rather than the child's
bedroom. Get to know their "online friends"
just as you get to know all of their other friends.
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